Feb 192009

Attitude management means getting the three Universal Laws in alignment.  Using the Law of Attraction to embrace the Law of Creation while adopting the Law of Allowing, gives you permission to be, have and do that which pleases you.   At the same time, you give others permission to be, have and do as well.  When we stop being so concerned about what others think about how we live and live our own passions, our attitude becomes much more pleasing to everyone including ourselves.  At the same time, we stop being so concerned how others are living their lives.

We are a nosy society somewhat.  Somewhere we lost our ability to think and stand on our own two feet.  We are approval seekers by and large, seeking approval from our peers, family, community and who knows where, before we make a decision.  The first bit of negative feedback we usually withdraw because we feel that if we go forward we will become outcast from that relationship.  Evolution is happening all around us and change is one thing for sure that is going to happen in everyone’s life.  It might as well be in your favour with you at the controls.

Managing your attitude means living your life on your terms.  We need to stop the conflict of trying to please everyone all the time.  I learned early in life we can please some of the people some of the time, all of the people some of the time, but never all the people all the time.  We can’t be everything to everyone so we need to stop trying.  It need not be a negative approach to decline any situation you feel you are not going to enjoy.  By saying “Perhaps another time it may fit better into my agenda, however, right now I am not able to accommodate you”.  You don’t have to justify yourself to anyone but you.

Until next time….


Dan Carpenter

Dan lives in rural Ontario, Canada, helping people world-wide find the key to open their door of opportunity to create the dreams and life passions using strategic customized processes. With a diverse background in Coaching, Business, Consulting, Sport and Energy therapies, Dan creates an experience enabling others to enjoy abundance and share their gift to the world.

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